7 Reasons Why The Word “Friendzone” Needs to die
So the term is widely played along amongst the youth after our favorite 'Joey' from FRIENDS used it. But let’s get it straight if you wait nine years like Ross to tell your girl that you like her, you are certainly putting yourself in the situation where a girl will think you just want to be friends. So, for all the guys out there, here's why you should just STOP using the term friendzone just because you were too lazy or scared to make the move. Here are the reasons why it needs to die. And, all the girls will definitely agree. 1.) Because making the girl a scapegoat just because you did not make your move is easy. Yes, putting blame on the other person is the easiest. Making others feel guilty could not be done any better than by accusing her for putting you in friendzone category. Guess what? You need to make the move and tell her right away and not wait for years. 2.) Because returning the same feelings is not her obligation. So let’s get it straight, you can’t force anyone to love you. You can’t say you have done so much for her and she didn’t love you. Who asked you to do it? If you are a nice person you would do it anyway, right? 3.) Because if it’s a guy thing, it’s a girl thing also. Yup. That’s true and everyone has to accept it. Girls also get put down by guys and more so some boys put girls as a backup option. So, now you can’t say you have never put a girl in freindzone. You don’t see girls crying about it out loud. 4.) Because the whole concept is made up. The term got famous after Joey used it for Ross in American sitcom FRIENDS. So, don't be cool and use it every now and then without any purpose! 5.) Because it is just a coping mechanism. People just use this term because they can’t take the fact that someone hasn’t reciprocated their feelings. Well it’s not their job to do so. Nobody owes anyone anything, right? 6.) Because it is sexist in a way. Because women don’t exist to serve you. In fact nobody exists in this world to serve anyone but themselves. Instead for you, she has put you in friendzone because she wants you to value this friendship without any sexual favors. What a slut! 7.) Because being nice to someone shouldn't be taken otherwise! You shouldn’t expect to get a cookie for being nice to a girl. In fact, you should be nice to everyone and you don’t get anything in return for things you should be doing anyway.